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年才开个头，四年级的小斌就挨了父亲一顿骂，在农村人眼里，新年里骂人不吉利，但小斌的父亲实在气极了，因为就在年初三晚上，小斌拿着压岁钱去跟小伙伴赌钱，一下子输掉180元！% W8 ]9 o+ x' x% v s, m2 @. a
小斌家住湖州八里店镇一个小村里，今年过年亲戚朋友给了红包，总共有360元，乡下人送红包，相互之间不像城里人那么大手笔，一个红包几十元，主要是讨个吉利。小斌家不是很富裕，360元在小斌眼里是一笔巨款，父亲说：“你长大了，红包先在你手里放几天，上学后上交！”想不到红包放在小斌手里还不到24个小时，就被他输掉一半。' l; G2 }2 L) t, K% R; v
记者了解到，在小斌村里，小孩的红包大部分被父母收走，多的上千，少则几百，有些是父母拿去包了红包送给亲戚孩子，有的父母帮孩子把钱存起来。也有一些小鬼头开始向父母争取“红包所有权”，思想比较开明的父母就同意把红包交给孩子自己打理。
( B6 z$ I# t; \# Q+ _& c2 g; u 跟小斌一样，五年级的小蔡同样拿到了500多元红包的所有权。手里第一次有了这么多钱，小蔡一下子感觉自己像大款了，先在年初二请一些好朋友在一个小饭馆吃了一顿，花掉八十多，然后大家又一起去了游戏厅，又玩掉六十多。看着红包一下子少了三分之一，小蔡有点慌了，如果父母要查看红包，一下子少了这么多，该如何交待！后来小蔡想了一个办法，年初四父母查账时，他向小伙伴借了150元，躲过一劫。1 E$ c; a/ I7 C9 h3 i1 z- J0 H
记者调查发现，春节假期里，孩子们手里的压岁钱多了起来，而对于多数家长来说，孩子手里突然有了那么多钱，如何处理好这笔钱，是摆在孩子面前的一道难题。特别是农村孩子，缺乏理财意识，大部分把红包输掉、玩掉、吃掉，仅有少数孩子会把钱存到银行里。
3 G7 r. M1 S; R+ V% K/ W1 q 小斌村上有一个六年级的孩子，从他二年级开始，父亲就把压岁钱交给他自己保管，每年学费、学习用品都是他自己对付，父亲从来不操心。孩子的父亲有一个观念：家长将压岁钱全数收归并全权代管，看似简单安全，实则弄巧成拙，这会让孩子产生一种不被信任的感觉而带来逆反心理，还在无形中打击了他们理财的积极性。( [( q, o1 K5 |' }9 ~- A: m
刚开始这位父亲将部分压岁钱交给他自己打理，同时引导其制定简单的开销计划，建立消费小账本，鼓励其根据自己的需求添置学习用品、购买课外读物，或者和孩子商量用压岁钱交学费书费，让他从中受到鼓舞。“我告诉他，利用压岁钱给爷爷、奶奶、外公、外婆等长辈购买节日礼物或生日礼物，花钱多少无所谓，主要是培养他的孝心。”: d' B7 q* b) a F1 L' V$ ]" |# [
这个孩子还有一个可取之处，村里孤寡老人，每逢过年总显得特别冷清，他就组织同学一起去看望，买东西的钱全部由他攒起来的红包里出，还帮着老人烧饭洗衣服。父亲说，他非常支持孩子的这种行为，“钱要花在刀刃上，帮助有需要的人。” |
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