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[font=Arial][size=17px]我和女朋友林芳是在2004年认识的，当时她还在广西的一所学校读书，而我则在广西打工，我的一个好朋友正好是她学校军训的教官。记得那天，我到学校找我的朋友，在他训练的学生队伍里，一个文静中略带羞涩、衣着十分朴实的少女吸引着我的目光。后来了解到她叫林芳，我对她可以说是一见钟情。3 {4 u! S, T, ~( j! o- ^& m
+ b l8 _! n( H3 I" r 此后，我有空就去学校找朋友玩，借机也和林芳交上了朋友。我俩人很投缘，也有共同的兴趣爱好，渐渐地我们彼此产生了好感，并成了好朋友。当时，我在湖南老家父母的安排下，早早和同村的一个女孩子订了亲，经过一番思量我决定悔婚，因为我的心里只有林芳一个人。
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# w! @* R/ F# K# R2 b. K. q 林芳毕业后，决定跟着我闯荡打工赚钱，我见她跟随我的心意已定，心里既欢喜又有几分担忧。由于林芳的父母一直不希望女儿嫁得太远，所以从一开始就反对我们在一起，我曾经好几次跟着林芳到她家想拜访她的父母，都被她的父亲扫地出门。但林芳始终坚持要和我相恋到底。/ L! ~' y1 u; ~3 K* G1 _- Z I
! C) ?$ b1 u1 ?; _ 在我几次登门拜访被驱赶后，林芳曾百般乞求父亲给我一次机会、好好了解一下我，但她的父亲还是无情地拒绝了。最后林芳忍不住和父母起了争执，她的父亲发出狠话“要这个男的，就永远别回这个家，就当我们从没生过你这个女儿”，而让我感动万分的是，林芳竟然含泪拉着我一起走出了家门，再也没回头。在当时，我在心里就暗下决心，一定要努力工作赚钱，早日娶她过门。; b8 S5 D) J+ \0 G5 ~2 V% C
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. G1 m( D3 u. R* P$ e/ P6 b 我和林芳也算几经波折才走到一块，在起初的两三年里，她不辞辛劳地跟着我四处奔波，我们相互扶持、相互安慰，那段日子虽然过得并不轻松，但我俩的感情却越来越深、越来越浓。而且我逢年过节还是会带着林芳回她家探望她的家人，渐渐地她的父母也开始认同我，可就在我认为自己的事业、爱情双丰收的时候，我却意外掉进Dubo陷井。: R. k! M) ?, _7 L
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我有很多亲戚在海南打工，经他们介绍，我便带上林芳来海南寻找干活挣钱的机会。谁料海南这边有些地方Dubo成风，而我也渐渐沉迷于此，虽然输多赢少，但我却越陷越深。看着我大把大把输掉自己辛苦挣来的血汗钱，林芳曾苦苦劝说，但我却听不进去，为此我还大发雷霆，在那段时间内我们争吵不断，林芳天天以泪洗面，甚至多次提及要跟我分手。7 J) A$ w+ t) H8 w
1 @8 ~8 E7 `% e( m9 P! v' p 直到将100多万积蓄全部输光后，我才幡然醒悟。我拼命向林芳道歉，恳请她原谅，并向她保证以后好好挣钱、再不Dubo。为了避免赌瘾再犯，我决定离开海南回湖南重新开始，而林芳则想暂时留在海南发展，我们商量好后认为短期两地分开也没太大问题，于是我就把林芳托付给我亲戚照顾。
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( o4 M8 p6 [" t. f, M7 j 她出轨后却不告而别/ V6 U3 N6 I, W0 J$ a
( n% d/ o. h; I8 l- b 在我们最开始分开的半年里林芳还经常短信、电话联系我，可能是我一心忙着挣钱，忽略了她，给她的关心少了。从今年四月份开始，我发现她的信息越来越少，甚至很长时间都不再联系我。而此时，我也从在海南的朋友那儿听闻，林芳和她原来的一个男同学很亲密，我想方设法要到那个男同学的电话，打电话警告他不要接近我的女友，可让我倍感痛苦的事情还是发生了。" h4 w, X1 Y3 Z
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五月初，林芳突然很惶恐地告诉我她怀孕了，但是谁的孩子她却不告诉我。知道这一消息后，我心痛万分、拼命折磨了自己好多天。但想到原来和我一起做工的兄弟都已经成家立业，而我却因为Dubo输掉了百万家产，不能给她一个安稳的家，现在打还得四处打工赚钱，很对不起林芳。所以我决定忍着伤痛，到海南来陪林芳打掉了孩子，而且还不断的安慰她，不敢有任何责备。8 w4 q/ G" C% G; ]- ^
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