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♞♞博马♞♞波波教你如何修心养性 ' U' h `( ^. z% l( R4 w3 R' W. x3 Q
修心：使心灵纯洁: `* R$ y: D5 V0 ?
* |: s$ n8 B+ d$ S/ F 养性：使本性不受损害。通过自我反省体察，使身心达到完美的境界& F; F+ C4 s+ O' P* _7 n
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我们对远方发生的事无能为力，想也没有用；杞人忧天，徒劳无益；惶惶不安，对于事情毫无帮助。记住自己就是生活在此处此地，而不是遥远的其他地方。
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5 x! Y8 C& b6 ^- ]3.停止猜想，面向实际
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c% _/ e- @; e) A! y0 [很多人整天所想的就是怎样做好工作，怎样考出好成绩，怎样搞好和领导、同事的关系等等，因而往往容易忽视或者没有心思去观赏美景，聆听悦耳的音乐等等。格式塔疗法强调作为思考基础的“感受”，比起思考本身更为重要。没有感受就无从思考，感受可以调整、丰富你的思考。
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/ O" P. X8 l1 S% n, d7 F6 x愉快和不愉快是相对的，也是可以相互转化的。因此，人们要有接受不愉快情绪的思想准备。如果一个人成年累月，总是“愉快”、“兴奋”，那反而是不正常现象.
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人们往往容易逃避责任。比如，考试成绩不好，会把失败原因归罪为自己的家庭环绕不好，学校不好；工作不好，会推诿说领导不力，条件太差等。把自己的过错、失败都推到客观原因上。“格式塔疗法”的一项重要原则，就是要求自己做事自己承担责任。4 u1 a: x! q- o- H! |7 P- Z3 C/ b( x
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+ P' a# ]. w& ]' L) G0 m在此，波波特此与大家分享修心养性之道，不仅在人际生活中，事业中，而且在进行投注的过程中，也是起到决定性的作用的，人的性格决定以后是否成功，性格不易更改，但是后期的培养却可以改变以后的道路，波波衷心希望大家在日常生活中也能修心养性，找回自己，展现出最好的自己！
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